I know, I know. Death is not usually what you think of when you think of favorite memories. But this is truly one of my very favorites that I will treasure forever. My husband's grandmother passed away 2 years ago. She was loved by many and even today my breath catches in my throat when I remember her and her love of people and how she made everyone feel welcome. Grandma Chris adored her grandchildren and her great grandchildren. And they all adored her.
There was a large memorial service for her where all those who loved her could gather and remember her and celebrate her life. But before that we had a small graveside service that was just for family. Everyone was sharing things that they loved about her or wanted to say. My son, Cale, who was only 8 at the time, quoted his favorite bible verse without any prompting from me or my husband. In a small, sweet, clear voice he said, "For God so loved the world that he gave his only son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."
Having Asperger's syndrome, Cale does not do well in social situations, especially when he doesn't understand all the emotions involved, which is often. I will never forget his sweet voice as he chimed in to remember his great grandmother. He put all fear and anxiety aside to be a part of something bigger than himself. May I have the strength and determination to be more like that.
